Recently, I have watched an Indian movie called, "Guzarish" obviously, it sounds foreign to some of you. Its the Indian word for request. The movie's genre is just like any other drama, romance, family movies. In my case, it was a little different than what i have seen from my point of view. The movie showed me a light to live my life more optimistically. This movie was about a magician who has been paralyzed since a performance went wrong 14 years before. Ethan, the magician doesn't lose hope. As long as he is living, he dedicates his life to work and tries to put a smile in his fan's faces through the book he wrote and through his radio show.
I came to the realization that there are so many people in this world who are suffering from many life threatening and incurable diseases. We are healthy and living a perfect life that we don't be thankful enough for. If looked from the helpless people's point of view, our life is so much better and so much we could be grateful for. People are still out there wanting more and being greedy and these may lead to the path of destruction. We often do not realize how life is beautiful and we should enjoy every moment because tomorrow is not promised to us.
In the movie, there was a scene where Ethan is going out and while the driver is driving him through a field he sees, kids are playing, running and enjoying. He wishes he could be in their shoe and wishes he could get one chance to start his life new. Start everything all over and not be helpless. Life is so beautiful yet, we complain about little things that go wrong. We fail to realize that Allah put us through situations to learn from it and with the balance of sadness and happiness what we lead is a normal life.
There are thousands of people who are suffering so much in their life that they wish they could be in your place. So appreciate your life because there are others who wished they could have what you got. You should be thankful for everything you have because you are living a healthy and normal life.
So, I hope today's blog helped everyone to look at life more positively and ignore anything that goes wrong. Because without misery and problems life would be plain and boring.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Tuesday, February 08, 2011
Joy Of Cooking
I am back to writing and this time I decided to write about cooking from my experience. Cooking is definitely an art and I believe your cooking will not come out right if you don't cook from heart. Mix the ingredients with love, mix them with the desire to eat because you are feeling like a hungry monster. When you mix your ingredients , do it from heart . Think about how you want your dish to come out. Experience cooking with the real joy and pleasure and only then your cooking skills will be accomplished.
There are few rules to follow when cooking and few things you can do to enjoy the session. Now, notice how this is not coming from a perfect professional but from my own experiences.
You could cook anything and any dish whether it is desserts, appetizers, or main courses but, keep in mind to not get impatient with the cooking process. If you follow recipe from internet please, follow the exact process. If the recipe is followed from a book, use you logic. Sometimes the recipe books leave out some ingredients and detailed process of cooking .In that case, you should think of what is missing in an ingredient or what you could add to complete the recipe. Lastly, the recipe that is followed on TV, follow the ingredients and do as told. However, keep in mind that you could always go an extra notch when cooking, you do not have to certainly follow all the steps but, do something different on your own. If you are a first time cooker then it is different I suggest, you luckily pick the perfect recipe and follow as said.
Sometimes people try to get with the easy way out by going with the semi cooking method when making their dish or using ready made cooking. Now, those do not always come out right and in my case, I hate cooking like that because I do not feel fully accomplished. I feel I am not being fair to my task. I know, I know, I am pretty serious about my chef skills. Thus, what happens when you cook semi cooking is that it does not come as tasty as it would if you cooked from scratch. All my recipes are made from scratch whether they are cookies, cake, main courses or appetizers.
Another thing you could do is when cooking do everything on your own with no helping hands. I enjoy cooking when I chop onions and vegetables on my own, when I do every little steps and processes just on my own. Keep in mind that you do not always remember each of the recipe and how it goes so , don't be lazy to write them down. Sometimes, people try to cook exactly as they were told which is a good thing as well as may turn out to be a negative thing. For instance, when cooking desserts, if you are told to bake for 30 minutes and you feel your cake is not baked yet, cook for another five minutes.Another example would be mixing butter in to your flour when making cookies. Sometimes the book tells you to mix one cup of butter in 1 and 1\2 cups flour. Now, when making cookies the amount of butter you put is a real important part Because if you put too less it will come out hard and if you put too much then it will break and just be crumby. So, pour the butter little at a time and just when you feel you have put the perfect amount, start mixing. So, when cooking, sometimes the recipes may be wrong or sometimes you just have to use your ideas rather than following recipes precisely from the book.
I could go on and on about cooking but this is not a book I m writing but a short article that I attempted to make short but failed. So, I would like to tell everyone that try cooking at home. Sometimes it gets you out of boredom, you learn for future benefits, and you could always make it fun and creative, especially, in the baking field. Use little ingredients of your own , put what you like more in your food, turn your favorite music on when cooking and you will definitely be a good chef. So, go ahead, chop the onions, mix the ingredients, stir the recipes, and make your heart sway with the rhythm of cooking.
There are few rules to follow when cooking and few things you can do to enjoy the session. Now, notice how this is not coming from a perfect professional but from my own experiences.
You could cook anything and any dish whether it is desserts, appetizers, or main courses but, keep in mind to not get impatient with the cooking process. If you follow recipe from internet please, follow the exact process. If the recipe is followed from a book, use you logic. Sometimes the recipe books leave out some ingredients and detailed process of cooking .In that case, you should think of what is missing in an ingredient or what you could add to complete the recipe. Lastly, the recipe that is followed on TV, follow the ingredients and do as told. However, keep in mind that you could always go an extra notch when cooking, you do not have to certainly follow all the steps but, do something different on your own. If you are a first time cooker then it is different I suggest, you luckily pick the perfect recipe and follow as said.
Sometimes people try to get with the easy way out by going with the semi cooking method when making their dish or using ready made cooking. Now, those do not always come out right and in my case, I hate cooking like that because I do not feel fully accomplished. I feel I am not being fair to my task. I know, I know, I am pretty serious about my chef skills. Thus, what happens when you cook semi cooking is that it does not come as tasty as it would if you cooked from scratch. All my recipes are made from scratch whether they are cookies, cake, main courses or appetizers.
Another thing you could do is when cooking do everything on your own with no helping hands. I enjoy cooking when I chop onions and vegetables on my own, when I do every little steps and processes just on my own. Keep in mind that you do not always remember each of the recipe and how it goes so , don't be lazy to write them down. Sometimes, people try to cook exactly as they were told which is a good thing as well as may turn out to be a negative thing. For instance, when cooking desserts, if you are told to bake for 30 minutes and you feel your cake is not baked yet, cook for another five minutes.Another example would be mixing butter in to your flour when making cookies. Sometimes the book tells you to mix one cup of butter in 1 and 1\2 cups flour. Now, when making cookies the amount of butter you put is a real important part Because if you put too less it will come out hard and if you put too much then it will break and just be crumby. So, pour the butter little at a time and just when you feel you have put the perfect amount, start mixing. So, when cooking, sometimes the recipes may be wrong or sometimes you just have to use your ideas rather than following recipes precisely from the book.
I could go on and on about cooking but this is not a book I m writing but a short article that I attempted to make short but failed. So, I would like to tell everyone that try cooking at home. Sometimes it gets you out of boredom, you learn for future benefits, and you could always make it fun and creative, especially, in the baking field. Use little ingredients of your own , put what you like more in your food, turn your favorite music on when cooking and you will definitely be a good chef. So, go ahead, chop the onions, mix the ingredients, stir the recipes, and make your heart sway with the rhythm of cooking.
Saturday, February 05, 2011
A mother's job
Everyone loves their mother the same and they all carry a cute mother-daughter relationship. However, some of us fail to understand and relate from her point of view. Mothers are always so caring and loving. They do anything to come forward to help out with the family by working outside and inside. The woman of the house have responsibilities that are tougher than men. Not that i have experienced motherhood but i have realized one thing is that the job of a mother is not a easy thing. A girl would never realize what a mother goes through until she becomes one. I don't realize everything either but i do realize that what a mother does for her family is so unbelievably amazing.
Now, you must be wondering why am I blabbering on about this since we all love our mother and know what she does for the family. However, its not as easy to understand as said. I am talking from experience since i was kept in her shoes for a week and handled the household but kept failing. Its a tough job and I must say at the end of the day, I was like a crazy lunatic not aware of my surroundings just wanting a place to lay my head on and sleep.
It was 22nd November at 6 am in the morning when my mom got sick and had a minor stroke and everyone hurried her to the emergency hospital. I was so worried, I kept praying for her and that's all I could do at that time. She was in the hospital for a night. Next morning, came back with yucky medicines and some tests done. The doctor said she has cholesterol, kidney infection, and thyroid , along with symptoms of stroke. Now, how old can she be? She is 46 or 47 and she has all these health problems she has to deal with. I feel guilty for not ever taking half of her responsibilities on my shoulder. I was guilty that I did not care enough to feed her healthy food and take care of her in a daily basis. May be if I cared enough to look after her, She would be healthy today and stress free. All these may be, would be, should be was driving me insane. Then i decided to just concentrate on my mother and take care of her with every little effort I could put to make her better and happy.
The day i woke up while she was at the hospital,I had to cook for her and others while my little cousins were driving me insane. They are not like other normal kids, these kids would chew your brains and swallow it. I had to give them food along with prepare everything. When she came home, I had to make sure she is eating right, drinking lots of water, her menu is being followed as given. I had to take care of everyday laundry, cleaning the house, including taking care of my dad, brother and grandmother at home. This was all too much for me to handle that I wanted to run away somewhere far. These tasks of mine were only for few days but, can you imagine a person going through that tough job for years and years? On top we the children put so much stress on her, and do not always value what she does for us. We fail to realize the real weak mother behind the strong one who pretends everything is fine by keeping a smile on her face.
A mom will work hard day and night, listen to family members tantrums, fight,deal with everyday family issues. Yet, she will smile and pretend to be okay just for the family's sake. We often fail to see that and move on with our lives and get busy. Thus, I must advice that you give enough importance to your mother and value her work. Because she does not and will not always say what she wants, sometimes you just got to give it to her. She is not a working machine, she is the reason, you are who u are and how the family stay so intact.
So,Here's the end of this blog with the thoughts of today:
Next time you hesitate to help your mother or back away from taking some of her responsibilities, think twice! Lessen her burden, comfort her and do not always think she is fine like i did. Don't let your mother fall sick and be there for her just like she is there for you at all times.
Now, you must be wondering why am I blabbering on about this since we all love our mother and know what she does for the family. However, its not as easy to understand as said. I am talking from experience since i was kept in her shoes for a week and handled the household but kept failing. Its a tough job and I must say at the end of the day, I was like a crazy lunatic not aware of my surroundings just wanting a place to lay my head on and sleep.
It was 22nd November at 6 am in the morning when my mom got sick and had a minor stroke and everyone hurried her to the emergency hospital. I was so worried, I kept praying for her and that's all I could do at that time. She was in the hospital for a night. Next morning, came back with yucky medicines and some tests done. The doctor said she has cholesterol, kidney infection, and thyroid , along with symptoms of stroke. Now, how old can she be? She is 46 or 47 and she has all these health problems she has to deal with. I feel guilty for not ever taking half of her responsibilities on my shoulder. I was guilty that I did not care enough to feed her healthy food and take care of her in a daily basis. May be if I cared enough to look after her, She would be healthy today and stress free. All these may be, would be, should be was driving me insane. Then i decided to just concentrate on my mother and take care of her with every little effort I could put to make her better and happy.
The day i woke up while she was at the hospital,I had to cook for her and others while my little cousins were driving me insane. They are not like other normal kids, these kids would chew your brains and swallow it. I had to give them food along with prepare everything. When she came home, I had to make sure she is eating right, drinking lots of water, her menu is being followed as given. I had to take care of everyday laundry, cleaning the house, including taking care of my dad, brother and grandmother at home. This was all too much for me to handle that I wanted to run away somewhere far. These tasks of mine were only for few days but, can you imagine a person going through that tough job for years and years? On top we the children put so much stress on her, and do not always value what she does for us. We fail to realize the real weak mother behind the strong one who pretends everything is fine by keeping a smile on her face.
A mom will work hard day and night, listen to family members tantrums, fight,deal with everyday family issues. Yet, she will smile and pretend to be okay just for the family's sake. We often fail to see that and move on with our lives and get busy. Thus, I must advice that you give enough importance to your mother and value her work. Because she does not and will not always say what she wants, sometimes you just got to give it to her. She is not a working machine, she is the reason, you are who u are and how the family stay so intact.
So,Here's the end of this blog with the thoughts of today:
Next time you hesitate to help your mother or back away from taking some of her responsibilities, think twice! Lessen her burden, comfort her and do not always think she is fine like i did. Don't let your mother fall sick and be there for her just like she is there for you at all times.
Wednesday, February 02, 2011
Break-up, make-up and Whatnot!
Life takes us in many different unexpected directions. Nothing is predictable when it comes to the life you are leading. Those who do not want a relationship, at the end, finds someone to be with. Sometimes it is momentary happiness and other times, it lasts for a long time. It is important to point out the silly mistakes teens usually make because of their immaturity. Many questions and thoughts run through my mind back and forth about girls who make silly decisions. I haven't grown much to be pointing out facts about teens but, from what I have observed in young girls and boys; I decided to share my ideas and points on today's blog.
Early Teens- At this age, girls find the need to be in the popular group in school. They want to fit in with the "cool" crew. Their urge to grow up may lead to many immature circumstances. Internet browsing are usually the main cause of them being too advanced. As soon as they hit the teenage, they want to learn everything and become curious about unnecessary things in life. These activities spoils them and messes them up before they could make any improvement in their behavior.
Middle teens- Teenage boys or girls hastily make decisions of being in a relationship which leads to a break up.Basically, because they have a lack of sensibility . So, why be with someone who you will eventually get rid of? Then, sooner or later, you end up being in another relationship because you are just not used to the single and boring life. So, why cause the single life to be boring in the first place?
Facts- Teens usually make silly mistakes at a very young age. Later, it leads to many heartbreaking issues. Neither can they get back what they have lost, nor change what they have caused. So, shouldn't they be wise before making decisions? Now, it is also true, young people may not be sensible enough to think wise. I believe, one can make right decisions at any age because everyone has the capability to think before taking an action. No-one forces someone to do something. If you are capable of being in a relationship, you are capable of thinking what is right for you.
Adults- At this age, young adults feel they are in love and they give in too easily. They end up having intercourse with their partner without thinking of the consequences. These may lead to unwanted pregnancy, family issues, mental breakdown, etc. When the relationship end, the girls or the boys, either want revenge from their ex or seek for a reason to blackmail them. Girls with a furious and jealous heart, want to either cause drama, make a scene, or revenge by being with another guy. Guys with wrong intentions either cheat on their mate or be what we may call, "two-timing". There are many unnecessary act that happens from one silly mistake. Therefore, one could always control their emotions and be wise. Hope this helps anyone from making any hasty and emotional decisions.
So, here's the end of this blog with the thoughts of today:
You are too precious to waste your time on the wrong guy. Feel confident about who you are. Everyone is special in their own way and no one can take away what you have. Always remember, do not let your emotions and weaknesses take over you. Don't loose your dignity and self respect over one silly mistake. Be who you are, love yourself, learn from mistakes, appreciate what you got, and move on with a brave heart. Always remember,every drop of maturity in our teenage reduces 10 drops of tears from our old age!
Early Teens- At this age, girls find the need to be in the popular group in school. They want to fit in with the "cool" crew. Their urge to grow up may lead to many immature circumstances. Internet browsing are usually the main cause of them being too advanced. As soon as they hit the teenage, they want to learn everything and become curious about unnecessary things in life. These activities spoils them and messes them up before they could make any improvement in their behavior.
Middle teens- Teenage boys or girls hastily make decisions of being in a relationship which leads to a break up.Basically, because they have a lack of sensibility . So, why be with someone who you will eventually get rid of? Then, sooner or later, you end up being in another relationship because you are just not used to the single and boring life. So, why cause the single life to be boring in the first place?
Facts- Teens usually make silly mistakes at a very young age. Later, it leads to many heartbreaking issues. Neither can they get back what they have lost, nor change what they have caused. So, shouldn't they be wise before making decisions? Now, it is also true, young people may not be sensible enough to think wise. I believe, one can make right decisions at any age because everyone has the capability to think before taking an action. No-one forces someone to do something. If you are capable of being in a relationship, you are capable of thinking what is right for you.
Adults- At this age, young adults feel they are in love and they give in too easily. They end up having intercourse with their partner without thinking of the consequences. These may lead to unwanted pregnancy, family issues, mental breakdown, etc. When the relationship end, the girls or the boys, either want revenge from their ex or seek for a reason to blackmail them. Girls with a furious and jealous heart, want to either cause drama, make a scene, or revenge by being with another guy. Guys with wrong intentions either cheat on their mate or be what we may call, "two-timing". There are many unnecessary act that happens from one silly mistake. Therefore, one could always control their emotions and be wise. Hope this helps anyone from making any hasty and emotional decisions.
So, here's the end of this blog with the thoughts of today:
You are too precious to waste your time on the wrong guy. Feel confident about who you are. Everyone is special in their own way and no one can take away what you have. Always remember, do not let your emotions and weaknesses take over you. Don't loose your dignity and self respect over one silly mistake. Be who you are, love yourself, learn from mistakes, appreciate what you got, and move on with a brave heart. Always remember,every drop of maturity in our teenage reduces 10 drops of tears from our old age!
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