Life takes us in many different unexpected directions. Nothing is predictable when it comes to the life you are leading. Those who do not want a relationship, at the end, finds someone to be with. Sometimes it is momentary happiness and other times, it lasts for a long time. It is important to point out the silly mistakes teens usually make because of their immaturity. Many questions and thoughts run through my mind back and forth about girls who make silly decisions. I haven't grown much to be pointing out facts about teens but, from what I have observed in young girls and boys; I decided to share my ideas and points on today's blog.
Early Teens- At this age, girls find the need to be in the popular group in school. They want to fit in with the "cool" crew. Their urge to grow up may lead to many immature circumstances. Internet browsing are usually the main cause of them being too advanced. As soon as they hit the teenage, they want to learn everything and become curious about unnecessary things in life. These activities spoils them and messes them up before they could make any improvement in their behavior.
Middle teens- Teenage boys or girls hastily make decisions of being in a relationship which leads to a break up.Basically, because they have a lack of sensibility . So, why be with someone who you will eventually get rid of? Then, sooner or later, you end up being in another relationship because you are just not used to the single and boring life. So, why cause the single life to be boring in the first place?
Facts- Teens usually make silly mistakes at a very young age. Later, it leads to many heartbreaking issues. Neither can they get back what they have lost, nor change what they have caused. So, shouldn't they be wise before making decisions? Now, it is also true, young people may not be sensible enough to think wise. I believe, one can make right decisions at any age because everyone has the capability to think before taking an action. No-one forces someone to do something. If you are capable of being in a relationship, you are capable of thinking what is right for you.
Adults- At this age, young adults feel they are in love and they give in too easily. They end up having intercourse with their partner without thinking of the consequences. These may lead to unwanted pregnancy, family issues, mental breakdown, etc. When the relationship end, the girls or the boys, either want revenge from their ex or seek for a reason to blackmail them. Girls with a furious and jealous heart, want to either cause drama, make a scene, or revenge by being with another guy. Guys with wrong intentions either cheat on their mate or be what we may call, "two-timing". There are many unnecessary act that happens from one silly mistake. Therefore, one could always control their emotions and be wise. Hope this helps anyone from making any hasty and emotional decisions.
So, here's the end of this blog with the thoughts of today:
You are too precious to waste your time on the wrong guy. Feel confident about who you are. Everyone is special in their own way and no one can take away what you have. Always remember, do not let your emotions and weaknesses take over you. Don't loose your dignity and self respect over one silly mistake. Be who you are, love yourself, learn from mistakes, appreciate what you got, and move on with a brave heart. Always remember,every drop of maturity in our teenage reduces 10 drops of tears from our old age!
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